Feb 4 / Ricky Tam

Starting Over: Finding a New Direction in Midlife

A vintage compass resting on soft purple fabric, symbolising finding your own direction

Welcome

Whether you found this through search, social media, or a friend's recommendation — I'm glad you're here.

This is The Compass Letter: weekly calm for overwhelmed professionals.

The idea is simple: in a noisy world that's constantly pulling you in different directions, sometimes you need a compass — not a map.

A map tells you where to go.
A compass shows you where you are, so you can choose your own direction.

That's what I hope to offer here: not prescriptions or 10-step systems, but gentle orientation. A way back to yourself when the world gets too loud.
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What to expect

Each week, I'll share one idea — usually around 3-5 minutes to read.

Topics will rotate through themes that matter to overwhelmed professionals:
→ REST: Sleep, 3am anxiety, energy management
→ RESET: Perfectionism recovery, the good enough mindset
→ RESTART: Boundaries, taking action, saying no
→ RE-DESIGN: Life transitions, career change, starting over

No hustle culture. No toxic positivity. No productivity hacks dressed up as self-care.

Just calm, practical guidance from someone who's been in the 3am panic and found a way through.
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A bit about me

A few years ago, I found myself starting over in a new country, in my midlife, with a lot of questions about what actually matters.

After two decades in tech — designing learning experiences for others — I finally started designing one for myself. One with less hustle. More calm. Room to breathe.

That journey led me to create Embracing Imperfection Academy: a calm space for overwhelmed professionals who've had enough of "more, faster, perfect."
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What's next

Next week, I'll share something I learned at 3am that changed how I think about anxiety.

It's not what you'd expect.

Until then, I'll leave you with the question I've been sitting with lately:
What would change if you stopped waiting to feel "ready" and just began?

Thank you for being here.


With calm,
Ricky
Creator, Embracing Imperfection Academy


P.S. If this resonated, let me know what brought you here. I read every message.

About the creator

I'm Ricky — a learning experience designer with a background in UX and digital communications.

A few years ago, I found myself starting over in midlife — navigating career change, 3am anxiety, and the pressure to have it all figured out. I know what it's like to lie awake at 3am with a racing mind, to feel like you're never doing enough, and to wonder if there's a calmer way to live.

There is.

I built Embracing Imperfection Academy because I believe calm is a competitive advantage, and 'good enough' really is the new perfect.

This isn't hustle culture dressed up as self-care. It's practical, evidence-based guidance for overwhelmed professionals who are tired of "more, faster, perfect."

If you're ready for a calmer approach, you're in the right place.

Ricky, creator — Embracing Imperfection Academy

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